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Loving Your Younger Self
Have you ever found a picture of yourself when you were little and felt sad? Well, not necessarily immediately sad; we usually smile when seeing ourselves as children. But as you look into her innocent young eyes, you know what’s in store for her. You know the abuse that is coming. The heartbreak. The letdowns. The hurts. The lies. You know about the trajectory-changing moments that lay ahead. And that is what makes you sad.
But, imagine being able to go back and talk to your little, young Self, even your toddler Self. Imagine you as a grown woman, being able to hold her, hug her, love her, and guide her. Now.
I’ve discovered this is one of the best ways to heal our Daughter Energy. When I see this picture of little me at age 2 or 3, I close my eyes and picture little her in my mind’s eye. I see us hugging. I see Adult Me telling Little Me that even though there are some tough times ahead, her life is going to be incredible. She is incredible.
I tell her to always talk to me, to call on me, to know I’ll never forsake her, that I’ll never leave her. I’ll never abuse her. I’ll always love her. It gives me tremendous relief.
What about you? What would you say to your younger Self? How could you better prepare her for life and what’s in store for her–for you?
As you move through this holiday season, especially if you have stress or anxiety, continue to remind yourself that you still have that little girl inside. Remind yourself that when you feel overwhelmed, afraid, hurt, or insecure, it is HER who needs your love. It is she who needs your kind words. Your affirmation. Your support, encouragement, and belief.
My Empowerment Tip:
Find a picture of yourself as a child. Frame it on your desk. Get to know her (you) better by dialoguing with ‘her’ in your journal. Ask her what she feels? What she worries about? What she wants?
Journaling like this is a great way to become your own best friend. Remember, no one can take care of her now better than you. In fact, you can be your own mother. Your own cheerleader. Your own greatest fan.
Happy Holidays,
Crystal
P.S. If you haven’t downloaded my three magical guided meditations I did with Natalie Hughes, as well as downloading my best-selling book, Simply…Woman!, click here now!
P.S.S. Download them for your little Self if you don’t yet care enough about your current Self. She’ll thank you for them!
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Crystal Andrus Morissette, Founder Simply Woman Magazine
From life as a homeless teen to coaching A-List celebrities, from having abs of steel and the Miss Galaxy to weighing over 200 pounds after having babies, Emotional Age and Communication Expert Crystal Andrus Morissette is a worldwide leader in the field of self-discovery and personal transformation. A media darling, she has been featured numerous times on Oprah.com, the New York Post, Fox TV, the Daily Mail, CBS Radio, CTV, CityTV, Global TV, Slice TV, the Globe and Mail, and the Toronto Star. Crystal is the founder of the S.W.A.T. Institute (Simply Woman Accredited Trainer), an empowerment coach certification exclusively for women that she created with fellow female visionaries Louise Hay, Marianne Williamson, Dr Christiane Northrup, Colette Baron-Reid, and Sandra Anne Taylor among others. Established in 2009, the S.W.A.T. Institute is now in over 30 countries.
Crystal is the author of five best-selling books, including her latest release entitled, “Simply…Woman: Stories from 30 magnificent women who have risen against the odds!” She is also certified in nutrition, sports medicine, and yoga.
Crystal’s message of resilience, strength, and inner power has allowed her to grace the stage with speakers such as Dr. Phil, Dr. Wayne Dyer, Naomi Judd, Suze Orman, Marianne Williamson, Louise Hay, Dr. Christiane Northrup, Dr. Joan Borysenko, Debbie Ford, Sarah Ferguson—Duchess of York, and many more. Crystal has coached women from all walks of life including A-list celebrities, best-selling authors, scientists, doctors, dentists, and lawyers to stay-at-home moms and struggling teens. Her passion is to get down in the trenches and help people become the (s)heroes of their own lives.
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