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How to Get From Where You Are, to Where You Want to Be…

By on March 24, 2015
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By Kris Britton

Feeling frustrated with not getting ahead?  There is a shift happening and more and more people are coming to me with huge shifts and they are getting closer to where they want to be.  This lights me up!!

Do you feel that stir in your soul to go from where you are to where you want to be?

I feel this is a topic a lot of people talk about, however I feel they tell you what to do in a way that will have you falling off the wagon pretty quickly.

I bet you can relate to where I’m at right now.  Lately I’ve been listening to my intuition and instead of just doing things for the money, the rush or the “what if I miss out!?” emotions, I am doing everything from a space of love for the work and the whole process.  Yes, I am following my feelings.

If something isn’t feeling authentic to me, I’m out.

You might be in this space right now where you’re SO ready to up level and take a radical turn in your life, but you aren’t sure exactly how to do it.

Are you questioning things like…

– “is this really going to work?”

– “what if I can’t change my life?”

– “maybe I’m stuck in this sh*tty situation”

– “I guess I’m not meant to build a business or have time freedom”

Times are shifting, my fabulous life lover.

This means, you have every ounce of clarity within you to go from where you are, to where you want to be…starting now.

Over the years {and sometimes still do until I check myself} throw tantrums because changes in my life don’t happen fast enough and that used to make my blood boil.  I have this link to time since I’ve been in my 30′s feeling as if everything is in pressure cooker and I have limiting hours to do anything with my life.  I really had to check myself before I wrecked myself with my personal coach for many months to ease this pain of “not being married…not being a mother….not driving an SUV and I’m almost 34!”

I would wake up in sweats over not meeting the timeline I had “created” for myself back in my 20′s.

Here’s the deal, my worry and stress was not allowing me to get to where I wanted to “BE”, so I was always remaining in “where I was”.

I was frustrated as heck with my life.

Yes, I weaved in and out of my victim mentality, played the pesky blame game and then my coach kindly yelled at me and told me to knock it off, and here I am today sharing with you some steps that really helped me put the spinning wheels to rest as I gained traction again to set myself on the road to where I wanted to be….my future.

It’s your time, baby to create your life!

How to get to where you want to be in your life:

Love each step now.  I know this might now be what you want to hear, but love where you’re at and love each step.

Even if the steps are rocky, love them.  A lot of my coaching is based on opening up and embracing the areas of yourself {your shadow self} that you want to hide and make disappear, but the truth is, these jagged steps are here for a reason.

So love them and learn what you must from each one.

The best way for you to overcome the blocks and hidden emotions that are currently holding you back from your dreams, more money, a rocking business / career is to work with a coach that can help you in a comfortable environment.  If you want to some help, reach out to me.

Drop to your heart.   Swirling around in your head to “find” the right answer is not going to work as well or as quickly as dropping to your heart and listening to your intuition.  This is why we were built with an internal compass and a deep connection to ourselves and the universe.  We are always being lead and always placed with the right people in our lives to help us get to where we want to be.

By living up in your head searching day after day, year after year for THE answer, you’re living in a state of fear.  The ego loves to have you living in fear because then you don’t need to make the money you want, live the dreams you have….no, you can live happily ever after as the ego wants, with the ego ruling your life.

As a Course in Miracles Says; “The presence of fear is a sure sign you’re trusting in your own strength.” And honey, if you’re own strength, living in your head is not working, turn to your inner guidance to help you get you to where you need to be.

This is what I help people do on a daily basis….it’s fabulous.

Start Fresh Today!  You have the power to say “enough is enough” and rewrite your vision starting today.
The best way to start fresh is to forgive yourself for the disconnect you’ve had and treat each moment as a time to shift.  If you don’t like the path you’re on, change it!  Why not now, right?

Trust what your emotions are telling you.  When you are unsure on what the next step is or what you are being guided to do, or what your anger is telling you, JOURNAL your heart out.  Ask on the top of a fresh page; “What is my next step?” or “In a perfect world, what would you have me do right now?” and the write answer will come through that pen and into your journal.

It’s easy to remain stuck in the muddy puddles of life, but it’s also easy and fearlessly awesome to take your feet out of the gumboots and run through each puddle with curiosity and knowing that you are the creator of your life.

Stop wasting time living off path and choose to create your fresh new path and belief system today!

Sending you so much LOVE!

I’d love to hear:

What are you ready to do with your life?

What ONE fear can you embrace today and step through to see fast results?

Comment below and let me know!
xxoo
Kris

 

krisKris Britton is the visionary behind iheartpurpose.com and her health & wellness blog iheartwellness.com, she is a Certified Life & Success Coach and Successful Home Based Entrepreneur.

Kris is known as a messenger for Financial Freedom.  She provides step by step strategies that transform women’s businesses and lives.  Kris’ coaching tools help women unlock their purpose and self worth, taking their business from zero to a 6 figure income quickly.

Loving what you do and making money doing it is so important!  Kris believes that we are here to share our purpose with the world while working less and getting paid more, having time freedom and financial freedom to live a life full of fun and adventure.

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