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Crystal Andrus feels irresistible, and it's not about the scale.

By on June 22, 2013
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Feel confident, gorgeous, sexy ~it’s all about connecting with your Woman Energy.

by Crystal Andrus.

Let’s face it: Most women are tired of feeling badly about themselves, tired of feeling as though they have to lose weight in order to be sexy, tired of thinking they need to be a size 5 to feel good.

I can tell you first-hand that I’ve been 50 pounds heavier than I am today, and 30 pounds lighter! My weight has been all over the board, and with it came a constant sense of never feeling truly confident and sexy.

That’s right! Even when I was much smaller, I still worried about how I looked, if I was good enough, and if my man would be into me . . . and stay into me!

What I can guarantee is that sex appeal has little to do with size, and far more to do with attitude. We’ve all met that “perfect-looking” woman who still emanates insecurity, self-doubt, and competitiveness. It tells me that our reflection can’t guarantee that we’ll feel good. Besides, we’ve all heard the saying, “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.”

What if today you decided that feeling irresistible starts here?

 

sexy starts now!

 

Sex Appeal Comes from Within!

The first thing we have to do is shift our energy so that it radiates confidence and sex appeal. Here are a few steps to help you achieve this, but it’s going to take some imagination and visualization on your part:

Close your eyes and take a couple of deep breaths; then imagine that all your body image issues are gone.

Gone.

Bye-bye.

Imagine that you completely love the skin you’re in. You know without a shadow of a doubt that you are scrumptious, delicious, and delectably delightful.

How would that feel?

How would it feel to know that you have absolutely nothing to worry about? You’re sexy, beautiful . . . and so assured. When you walk into a room people feel your energy. You light up a room. It has nothing to do with size of your hips.

How would that feel?

Let yourself really breathe in this energy of confidence.

Continuing this visualization, how would it feel to know that your body is at the perfect size and weight for you, right now, at this stage and age in your life? Sure, it may change. You may lose weight. You may gain weight. You’re not worried about it . . . any longer! That’s the old you. You don’t have to fear, diet, stress, or carry these burdens another day. You’ve got it covered.

How would that feel?

Yes! I know! It feels good, doesn’t it?

Relief. Joy. Self-love . . .

Can you feel how you instantly shift? How your energy becomes powerful, confident, fun, and attractive?

I bet you’re sitting a little straighter, your shoulders are back, and you’ve pulled your tummy in because this is what happens when we feel good about ourselves—regardless of our weight.

Holding onto this feeling, imagine how you would walk, dress, talk, eat, dance, laugh . . . and make love! How would you treat yourself if you knew with absolute certainty that you were sexy? Desirable? Gorgeous?

Wouldn’t you take more care when bathing, dressing, and planning your Friday evening date with your husband or boyfriend?

I bet you would!

In fact, if you carried this energy into the bedroom, I bet you’d be a whole different lover! One that oozed with an intoxicating energy that few men could refuse!

 

I call this Woman Energy™ and I’m writing about it in my new book.

 

Woman Energy™ is receiving, confident, self-loving, courageous, beautiful, commanding, and powerful. When we learn how to step fully into our Woman Energy™, we can become unstoppable at anything we desire.

Soon we realize that it’s our energy that makes us so enticing; we attract lovers, friends, and great opportunities. It comes from deep within. We may not be able to control the length of our legs, the width of our hips, or the size of our breasts, but we do have complete control over how we feel about them!

 

340006_10150311350648122_335684808_oCrystal Andrus is a bestselling author, international speaker, women’s advocate, host of “The Crystal Andrus Show” on CBS Radio, and Founder of “The S.W.A.T. Institute (Simply Woman Accredited Trainer)” ~ the world’s #1 online Personal Empowerment Certification Coaching School, exclusively for women. She can be reached at www.crystalandrus.com or www.swatinstitute.com.

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