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February 2014 – The Month of Love, Self-Nurture and Embracing the REAL You.

By on February 4, 2014
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By Michelle Arbeau, Celebrity Numerologist.

It’s no wonder February holds the special Valentine’s Day and is considered the month of love. February is the second month of the year and the two carries the main traits of intuition and sensitivity and is also the gateway number to the Soul Plane. It’s about feeling this month and emotions will be on the sensitive side. With the relationship-focused year behind us, the theme of 2014 is authenticity and truth. Combining that with the feeling centered energy of February and you get a soulfully self-reflective vibe.

It’s about embracing the REAL you this month. Take the time to pause (so many of us resist being still) and figure this important step out. If you do, you’ll be in much better place to utilize the truth-filled essence of the year.

You’ll be making a great deal of headway inwardly but not much in the way of outer change – just yet. As the month moves closer to wrapping up, you’ll start to feel less physically stalled and bustling with ideas of how you’ll implement the new you.

 

Calculating Your Number:

Before we get to the individual monthly forecasts, you’ll need to calculate your Life Theme Number which is your main energetic essence in this lifetime. Your date of birth is like spiritual DNA and can reveal who you are, what you’re here to do and how to do it.

To calculate your Life Theme Number, add together each individual digit in your date of birth and then reduce to a single digit, like this:

DOB: 12-18-1975

1+2+1+8+1+9+7+5=34

3+4=7

This date of birth has a Life Theme Number of 7. Follow the same steps to calculate your own essence.

**Note: If the sum equates to 10, 11, 22 or 33, stop there. Don’t reduce these numbers further as they are called the Master Numbers and should be displayed in their unreduced form. They are guiding frequencies which carry a greater responsibility to mankind in terms of their life purpose. To find out more about these numbers and the other nine base energies, sign up to my newsletter at www.MichelleArbeau.com to receive a complimentary copy of “Life Theme Numbers”.

 

Individual Life Theme Number Forecast for February:

2:  Carrying the same vibration as the month’s energy, you’ll be feeling extra emotionally sensitive but also extra intuitively tuned in. Your psychic feelers will be picking up much smaller, more subtle (and important) details this month. You’ll be navigating the path with expert precision, figuring things out at a rapid pace. Of all the Life Theme Numbers, you’ll be on top of this authenticity wave and discovering who you truly are and want to create going forward. It’s best to steer clear of anyone who is negative or emotionally charged in a less than positive way (drama queens, negative vampires, etc). They will only cloud your clarity and you’re on fire this month with your intuitive hits – use it to your advantage for a change. Even though you’ll be feeling rather vulnerable with emotions being extra sensitive, resist the urge to become co-dependent in your close relationships right now. Retreat to keep your intuition clear and flowing. If you follow this guideline, lots of ah-ha moments will follow.

3: As the number of imagination and memory as well as the social butterfly number, a super-sensitive feeling month can be a little tough to endure for the three. You might have your moments of feeling jittery or on-edge as your mind tries to logically think its way through the river of emotions surfacing this month. Resist the urge to rationalize your emotions. This is your moment to step down from the mind for a change and go with how you feel rather than what you think. You’re discovering the most authentic version of yourself and it can’t be done through thinking alone. Be especially aware in social situations this month because you’ll find you might be curt with or overly critical of others with emotions on the sensitive side. February will be a challenging month for the three but you’re up for it. You’re more intuitive than you give yourself credit for.

4: The four is the “doer” of the Life Theme Numbers. They’re the practical, organizational foundation builders. The feeling realm isn’t necessarily their go-to place as they would rather do first and think/feel second. The realm of the heart/emotions doesn’t follow the logic of the mind so a highly charged feeling month can make the four feel out of their element and out of sorts. The beginning of this month might have you feeling like a fish out of water but you’ll be pleasantly surprised at the many moments you’ll catch yourself leaving the world of logic and reason and floating in the space of intuition. The best part about being a four is that when inspiration hits, you’ve got the physical energy to bring it to fruition in a hurry.

5: The five is next to the two on the birth chart and is the second most sensitive Soul Plane Number. Five is the number of the heart/emotions and when a five is in the midst of two energy, it isn’t too shabby at navigating the emotional waters. This month’s energy will have you keenly aware of your emotional self and less likely to react in emotionally charged situations. You’re in introvert mode right now, something the freedom of expression number isn’t necessary used to but you’re enjoying this solitude after the fast-paced experiences in January. As the month progresses, you’ll find that you’re making headway in the realm of relationships but it might be a one-sided situation for now. With your emotions attuned front and center but more in observation mode, you’ll start to see clearly the meaning and purpose behind the closer relationships in your life. You won’t necessarily take any action in changing those relationships until the intellectual energy of March (3) comes closer but the clarity you receive this month will get your mind churning in the right direction. Overall, expect to feel cool, calm and collected this month–something you haven’t felt in a while.

6: The six is the number of extremes with a strong positive and negative side. When you’re up, you’re up but when you’re down, you can go all the way down. Sixes are prone to self-sabotage and being critical of themselves and others (pessimistic). The key for the six is to always constantly be creating in some form (six is the number of creativity). When you’re not doing that, you end up in the negative vortex, spinning round and round. Under a two energy this month, it is self-reflective and subdued energy in terms of physical expression. It’s not a big outer action month and for the six (if they’re not conscious of it) it can spell trouble. One thing the six leans toward is creating “what-if” scenarios and vividly living them out in their mind. With emotions on the sensitive side this month, you could find yourself feeling more than a little anxious. Resist the temptation to put too much thought into how you’re feeling right now. Go with the flow as much as possible and more than ever, be sure to surround yourself with positive, people, places and things. As the nesting energy, you’re feeling more lovey-dovey this month but be cautious not to breach the line into co-dependent mode where you become judgmental, critical and narrow-minded instead of the broad-sighted nurturing visionary that you are.

7: The seven is no stranger to isolation for the sake of contemplation but this month you could take it overboard and become a hermit. The sevens are normally the “leap before thinking” Life Theme Number but under a subdued, low physically focused month, you’re head-first into the flip-side of the seven energy: Self-reflection and research mode. You’ll find this month you’re drawn to read more, research on the internet, watch some meaningful television or movies – all in search of answers. You’re using the sensitive and intuitive energy to map out your next phase. Relationship connections and your social life in general might take a hit this month because you’ll be way off the radar. That’s ok for now though as you’ve got your lesson plan laid out for you this month. You’re on a mission and need to go into your cave for some serious brainstorming.

8: As the number of wisdom, the eight is referred to as the knowledge bearer but this month you won’t be feeling as confident in your wisdom. You might find yourself grumpy and edgy at times because your stream of wisdom and knowledge has got a bit of static in the lines. You’re feeling off your game and discombobulated. You’ll likely find yourself switching back and forth frequently this month from wanting to fly solo to the desire to be in the company of others. Others may not get your all over the place behavior but you’re not overly concerned right now. You’re like a cat being rubbed the wrong way and frankly, you can’t wait for February to be over. In work and personal relationships, you could snap or lash out easily so be extra careful and mindful of what you say before you say it. You have less than enough patience for others this month. As March approaches, your sense of balance and equilibrium will return and your flow of wisdom will be gushing again. Be patient with yourself and use this disconnected time as a period of recharge.

9: Surprisingly, as the most active mental number, you’re rather enjoying this highly emotionally charged month for a change. You’re embracing the love mode and gushing on others close to you. Your humanitarian charm is shining bright and you’re extra patient and helpful. If you find yourself whistling a happy tune while you walk or smiling at a stranger, relish the moment and breathe it in. You can be overly serious with your black and white, right and wrong outlook so this is a refreshing change of pace for you. February’s energy has you feeling as though the world is your oyster and anything is possible. The focus of your month is relationships but not starting, ending or changing them. It’s simply about enjoying the meaningful time you spend with those you care about. This deepening of the important connections in your life will bring you a sense of equilibrium to help you stay focused during the high change spring months ahead. You’re all about selfless service but you can’t keep giving until the well is dry. You’ll end the month with a feeling as though your emotional and spiritual belly is pleasantly full.

10/1: After the one energy of January, February’s soulful two energy feels like it’s hit you like a ton of bricks. It may take you the first week or so to slow down enough to begin enjoying the lighter flow and slower pace of the month’s energy. Thankfully you’re the number of adaptability and most ten’s can be like cats in the sunshine if they want to be. It’s just going to take you a minute to adapt because going from January to February is like oil and water. Once you do, you’ll be happily fitting in as many downtime moments as you can. You won’t be feeling overly ambitious this month and that dream vacation keeps popping into your head at work. You’re also not taking much seriously right now and that includes relationships. You’ll take an “it is what it is” approach and let things slide for now. As for contemplation or self-reflection this month, you really just feel like being “offline” to chill for a bit. Take a road trip to a fun destination or buy yourself something that makes you feel good and don’t feel guilty about not accomplishing much in the next few weeks.

11/2: Pivotal could be a word to describe your month. You’ve got a double whammy two energy (you are a two at the base and February is the second month) going on and it’s calling you to be on the spiritual mountain, looking back to where you’ve gone and looking ahead to where you want to go next. You’re making some major inner decisions this month about who, what, where and why. It’s happening at a rapid pass too, leaving you feeling a little breathless from the high speed shifting. Of all the Life Theme Numbers, you’ll walk away with the most clarity this month. There’s no time for relationship drama when you’re in such serious inner change mode. More so than relationships, your soul searching is more about your path and purpose right now as you’re feeling a call to your post. Let the revelations and epiphanies hit you as they come and don’t worry about the break-neck speed at which you seem to be climbing that spiritual mountain. You won’t slip or fall because it’s your time to figure things out.

22/4: Whenever two and four energies collide, you get what could be referred to as “practical spirituality”. It is a realm where intuition leads action, as it should be. For the twenty-two four in the second month, it can be one of the few Life Theme Numbers that experiences both inner and outer action. Typically a two month is self-reflective and not big on action but your energy as the four at the base gives wings to the sensitive two. You have a knack for translating the intuitive hits into plans of action and implementing them. This month you’ll actually see more outward progress than you did in the pioneering new beginnings energy of January. Career-wise, you’re pumping out ideas and solutions, being the Master Builder you were born to be. Relationship-wise, you’re seeing things for what they really are and taking practical steps to improve the situation. February you’re on the ball and in your element.

33/6: One of the greatest challenges of the thirty-three six is self-doubt and self-criticism. This month you’re feeling particularly vulnerable to and affected by the critics from those around you. In both love and career you’ll be shaky in your confidence and abilities. Like the six Life Theme Number, it’s critical to avoid negative people, places and things this month. Your main focus should be on self-nurturing in February. Carve out as much “me time” as possible. Take relaxing walks, soothing bubble baths or treat yourself to some retail therapy that will help you feel like you’re worth it. Now more than ever you need to be conscious of when you go into autopilot with your insecure thoughts and feelings. Keep in the forefront that you are the Master Teacher, the one who has limitless potential for success. You won’t really take any big steps forward in your master plans or goals over the next few weeks but that’s ok. You’re not meant to right now. It’s crucial to your success to feel like you have something worthy to share with the world. Without that, you become your own greatest enemy and become the self-sabotager.

 

Michelle Arbeau HeadshotMichelle Arbeau is an internationally recognized Celebrity Numerologist, author, inspirational speaker and radio/tv host. She has a Hollywood clientele base that includes Twilight vampires, Big Bang Theory actress, Pirates of the Caribbean actor, NBC Director, Celebrity stylist and many more.

A media favorite and considered an expert in her field, Michelle is frequently a repeat guest on national outlets such as CBC Radio, CTV Morning Live, Breakfast Television and LA Talk Radio.

As founder and host of Authentic You Radio/TV, Michelle has interviewed many of the top authors, speakers and celebrities in her quest to inspire and empower others to live with authenticity.

Her upcoming books, The Energy of Words: Harness the Vibration of Language & Transform Your Life and Soul Numbers: Decipher the Message from Your Inner Self to Successfully Navigate Life are the product of combining her love of numbers with her passion for helping others to find purpose, meaning and joy in life. (Book Release Dates October & December 2013). www.MichelleArbeau.com.

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